No I didn't get divorce nor annulment, I was never married. I lied.
I met my daughter's father when I was 23, he was 32. I now have a 5 years old daughter with him. For the sake of my daughter, I'm not gonna go into details about how bad it was, and what happened, but I want her to know that she's the best thing that I got out of the 7 years I spent with her dad, and because of her I don't regret it.
A few things I should say about my past relationship was that my daughter's father is still married to someone else, it was never dissolved or taken cared of. Like most men, they will promise you the moon and the stars, and marriage (to get what they want, yeah!), but there wasn't any moon or stars. But still I was committed like I was a wife, I was loyal and faithful, up until I received a gift, a blessing, a ninja.
Gamers, they get a little excited with female players, so I thought my gaming life would be simpler if I just say I'm married, (well i'm kinda pretending to be and/or playing the part).
My Kboy believed I was married, he was playful and he was flirting but he was respectful at the same time. We really just have chemistry from the beginning, as friends.
I remember when he asked me what my husband does for a living and I said he works in a ship, he said all good he can steal me away while he's gone. He said he was joking.
We were already talking in viber and skype for awhile before he learned I was not really married.
He was asking for my maiden name cause maybe we are related and I gave him my name, which is the same name he knows. And he asked me why I didn't change my last name when I got married. I said because we don't have divorce here and he knows he was married once. It took him a few more minutes to realize what I was trying to say.
My daughter's father can't get divorce because there's no divorce in the Philippines, he promised to get an annulment but didn't keep it.
Things changed once that was out, we didn't start being a couple nor did he became aggressive when he found that out, instead we became best friends, we became more open to each other. I stopped pretending to be a happy a wife. We have talked about things we don't say to anyone. I fell in love with my best friend, my love, my baby.
So yeah, I was never married. But he still is..
My Kboy believed I was married, he was playful and he was flirting but he was respectful at the same time. We really just have chemistry from the beginning, as friends.
I remember when he asked me what my husband does for a living and I said he works in a ship, he said all good he can steal me away while he's gone. He said he was joking.
We were already talking in viber and skype for awhile before he learned I was not really married.
He was asking for my maiden name cause maybe we are related and I gave him my name, which is the same name he knows. And he asked me why I didn't change my last name when I got married. I said because we don't have divorce here and he knows he was married once. It took him a few more minutes to realize what I was trying to say.
My daughter's father can't get divorce because there's no divorce in the Philippines, he promised to get an annulment but didn't keep it.
Things changed once that was out, we didn't start being a couple nor did he became aggressive when he found that out, instead we became best friends, we became more open to each other. I stopped pretending to be a happy a wife. We have talked about things we don't say to anyone. I fell in love with my best friend, my love, my baby.
So yeah, I was never married. But he still is..
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